Your Closet: Boutique or Rummage Sale?

Good day, dear reader…

It’s a rough week. If you follow me on Instagram, you know that my family has a funeral this week, hence I am revisiting a post I wrote last June at the beginning of my blogging journey. Rather than linking, I have copied it here for you: (And added some visuals for effect!)

When you open your closet, what do you see? A mini-boutique of custom selected clothing, all just right for your shape, size, and coloring, chosen to maximize your assets and your options, and able to dress you well for any occasion? Or does your closet feel more like a stuffed-to-the-gills hodgepodge of color, size, and shape, with nothing to wear? The closet dream, or the closet nightmare?

The nightmare is usually the result of shopping without a plan. I know, planning sounds boring, but wardrobe shopping without a plan is kind of like going to the grocery store drunk, hungry, and without a list. (If you don’t drink, imagine letting a toddler fill the grocery cart. You’ll have the same result.) You come home with an empty wallet, a kitchen full of snacks, pizza rolls and ice cream, and no staples to make the week’s meals. This seems to be how much of America wardrobe shops. (Just head to the mall on Saturday afternoon if you aren’t sure. Or, watch a couple of haul videos on YouTube.)

The fabulous mini-boutique is the result of discipline and planning, combined with a dash of serendipity. Now, discipline has become quite the dirty word of late; the first entry in the Merriam-Webster online dictionary for discipline is punishment. A further entry lists the synonym self-control. That sounds so much better! Self-control means that I am the one choosing what comes into my closet boutique. I want it to represent my boutique’s brand or concept. For my closet, I want it to represent my personality and values, so I am willing to wait for the right thing, instead of the newest thing that the shops are pushing this week. 2017JUN16

So to the present… I am even more convinced than I was then of the value of planning a wardrobe vice shopping higgledy-piggledy. It’s an part of living an intentional and integrated life. Looking at what you already own addresses the past, looking at what you need and want addresses the present, looking at what your goals are and making sure you have a wardrobe that supports those goals addresses the future. There’s a reason people call a Wardrobe Audit “Closet Therapy”!

How about you? Does your past live still in your closet? Does your closet resemble the boutique or a rummage sale? Let’s start a conversation in the comments below!

Stylishly yours,