
Imitation is the Most Sincere Form of Flattery?
The familiar quote above is from CC Colton, although others have said similar through the ages. In our social media (especially Pinterest) age, where are the lines between imitation, inspiration, and cultural appropriation?
Imitation and Inspiration
I will say flat out, that I have no answers here! This is all interpretation, unless you are dealing with patent law, and piracy, neither of which involve flattery, merely profit. For fashion or style, I define imitation as the the duplication of another’s look. Maybe, you are trying to duplicate one of Kate Middleton’s maternity looks for a baby shower. You find the same dress, and the closest possible shoes, but alas, you cannot duplicate the jewels! Understandable, so you go for a matching set you have that is similar. You are trying to recreate her look. That says imitation to me. Pre-teens do this all the time; I am sure most of us have seen two or three together, (sometimes more!) wearing matching outfits.
Inspiration works on a much looser principle. You like someone’s look, and you take something from that look, and make it your own. Maybe you use the color scheme, or the proportions, or the way she mixed her jewelry, but you do it using your own items, in a way that works for your personality, shape, and lifestyle. I have a client who loves Katherine Hepburn in her wide legged trousers and crisp white shirts, and Nicole Kidman’s modern interpretation of that same Elegant Chic. My client would be swamped in wide legged trousers, and does not wear woven shirts, but she takes her inspiration from the color combinations, and simple accessories they use.
Cultural (Mis)Appropriation
Talk of imitation and inspiration often leads to a discussion on cultural (mis)appropriation. This is a messy topic, and much like the author of this article in The Atlantic, I do not want to only live the culture of my Irish, German, and Alsatian ancestors; I would look silly running about in a dirndl and shawl. (Although a pint of Guiness would not be a strain…) I can see how taking elements from another’s culture, using them for profit, and not giving credit is a problem, as the author of this Thoughtco.com article elucidates. Years ago, I was astonished when a folk-dance enthusiast and instructor commented on a necklace I was wearing. She recognized it as an antique Kuchi Wedding Necklace (I think…) and asked how it came to be in my possession. She told me these necklaces were very special pieces, and rarely left the family. When I put on the silver necklace that was a gift from my mother, I was not pretending to be an Afghan bride. My mother saw it at an estate sale, and thought the craftsmanship beautiful; it is a work of art. I wear it with that same appreciation. I appreciate its beauty even more, now that I know more about it.
Most of us are past the imitation phase in our lives, so, where do you find inspiration for your outfits? Please share in the comments below!
2 Comments
NATALIE K
Liz, I started reading fashion sites for women over 50 during this lockdown due to the pandemic. I was very down to be honest and was hoping to find some like-minded women. I’ve not found women that I get much fashion inspiration but I have found women feeling and going through thimgs that I am. I’m not alone! I find most of my fashion inspiration from you (your very encouraging!) and magazines. I do look at what younger uo-to-date women are wearing. I pick from this pieces of what and how to wear them. I’m not aiming for young just modern. I never copy an outfit just pieces and put them together my way that suit me. For me clothing is about expssion!! Since gaining weight I’m not as comfortable in clothing anymore so I find myself trying to find my way again. I hope that made since!
Liz K
Glad to be encouraging! Thank you!